Connection, beyond the screen.

No cold approaches, no flaky apps, no cringe.

Dating and social events in Sydney. Meet people in a room, with a host to make the first introduction.

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What wears singles out

~~Relentless swiping.~~ ~~Awkward speed dating.~~ ~~Cold approaches.~~ ~~Overpriced, forgettable events.~~ ~~Being ghosted on apps.~~

So we run something else. A room that connects friends, people and potential romance, beyond the screen.

Events coming up

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Your Move - Games Night Social (Under 35s)

NOV

Singles Social

18–25, 25–35

Your Move - Games Night Social (Under 35s)

Gymea Hotel · November 12, 2026, 6:00 – 9:30 PM

From $15.38View event

NOV

Wingmate Social

18–25, 25–35

Wingin' It | Pop Culture Trivia Night

Gymea Hotel · November 25, 2026, 6:30 – 10:30 PM

From $15.38View event

Deal a Good Hand | Card Games Social (45+)

NOV

Singles Social

55+, 35–55

Deal a Good Hand | Card Games Social (45+)

Gymea Hotel · November 26, 2026, 6:30 – 9:30 PM

From $15.38View event

78%

of dating app users feel emotionally, mentally or physically exhausted by the apps.

Forbes Health survey, 2024

91%

of Aussie singles aged 21-35 say today's dating apps are a challenge to use.

Coffee Meets Bagel x YouGov, 2025

42%

of young daters say their friends now actively influence their dating life.

Tinder Year in Swipe™, 2025

32%

of couples say friends and family helped them find their match. It's the #1 way people meet a partner.

Pew Research Center, 2019

You arrive with a friend. A host runs the room.

The host makes the first introductions and the groups are balanced, so no one has to walk up cold.

At a Wingmate Dating Social you come with a friend, single or taken, and move through hosted activities together, so nobody has to do a solo night.

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Swiping can't replace meeting someone in person.

A profile can't tell you how someone laughs. A room full of the right people, at a real venue, still can.

Apps and bars

A hosted night

Right-swiping strangers

Meeting people in the room, in person

Speed-dating conveyor belt

A real activity to actually talk over

Cold approaches at a bar

A host who breaks the ice first so you don't have to

Flaky group chats

A ticket that holds your seat

These fill fast, and we won't overbook to fit you in.

Each venue caps numbers so the room stays comfortable. Once a night is full we don't add more tickets, and latecomers wait for the next event.

How it works

01
Pick your event. Browse by age group, suburb and date. You can come to a Wingmate event or a Singles event. We run mixers, games nights, run clubs and more.
02
Grab a ticket. Spots are limited on every event, so they do sell out.
03
A host runs the room. You're not left to find your own footing. The host keeps things moving and makes the first introductions.
04
Show up. Walk into a room of people who chose to be there too.

Choose your age group, grab a ticket, and show up.

Where we run nights

Live in Sydney now. The rest of Australia is on its way: tap a city to see where we're up to.

Live now

Sydney

3 nights on sale right now. Next up: Your Move - Games Night Social (Under 35s), November 12, 2026, 6:00 – 9:30 PM.

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What people say after a night

Words from people who came along. Been to a night? Share yours.

Infynite is awesome! They provide such a friendly environment with engaging activities. They always host next to a bar so drinks are readily available to buy.
David, 28
Right Place, Right Night
The events themselves are quite fun and interactive compared to what Merge Dating and Thursday Dating do — I'll definitely be going to more over time. I really like what the young lady behind Infynite has done.
Alexander, 29
Cowboy wants a Partner