Infynite
We got tired of the apps too.
Events in the suburbs, close to where people live.
Meeting people as an adult in the suburbs shouldn't take a 45-minute commute or a dating app.
Why I started Infynite
I've moved cities more than once and changed schools more times than I can count, and through all of it I never struggled to meet people, to find my crew, my community, my people.
Then adult life happened. A corporate opportunity took me away from friends and family in Sydney for two years. I was busy, I was focused. But I was also quietly lonely. And when I looked around at the suburbs I was living in, I realised there was almost nothing designed to help people like me connect. Every singles event and social night was in the CBD; nothing was built for the people who actually live on the outskirts of the city.
That question wouldn't leave me alone. So I started researching, talking to people, listening. Slowly, the idea for Infynite took shape: a space where people can meet authentically, without the pressure or the awkwardness, right in their own community, like it used to be.
The Infynite Way
Events happen in your suburb, not just the CBD. Every introduction is face to face, in the room, on the night. And numbers are capped to suit each venue and grouped by age, so the room always has something in common.
How an event works
Browse by age group, suburb and date and pick a night. Spots are limited on every event, so they do sell out. Grab a ticket and you're in.
On the night a host runs the room. You're not left to find your own footing: the host keeps things moving and makes the first introductions, and you walk into a room of people who chose to be there too.
Wingmate Social is the one where you bring a trusted friend who talks you up, so you don't have to. It's casual and low pressure, and at pub-style venues one drink is included (not every venue does this).
Singles Social is our regular run of mixers, games nights and active meetups. There are no assigned seats, icebreaker prompts get things started, and it runs two to four hours with a mixed group and no pressure.
Questions people ask
Do I need to come alone?
Most people do, and that's the point. You can bring a friend if it makes you more comfortable, just grab them a ticket too.
What age groups do you run?
Events are grouped into 18-25, 25-35, 35-55 and 55+ so the room has something in common.
What if I don't know anyone there?
Nobody does, and that's normal. Hosts break the ice early and the games or seating are set up to mix people up.
Can I get a refund?
Tickets are non-refundable, but they're transferable to a friend up to 24 hours before the event.
Which suburbs do you run events in?
Across the Sutherland Shire, South Sydney and Balmain in the Inner West. We add suburbs as we find venues.
Are Infynite's dating events in Sydney actually legit?
Yes. Every event runs at a real, named venue, you'll see the address before you book, and a host is on the ground all night.
How much do singles events in Sydney cost?
Most nights are $19 to $35, and the ones with food, a band or drinks included go up to $75. Early Bird is always cheaper than General Admission or On the Door. There's no membership, no subscription and no matchmaking fee.
How is this different from speed dating?
Speed dating is a conveyor belt: a few minutes, a bell, next. Infynite events run two to four hours around a real activity, so conversations happen the way they do in life, unscripted and for as long as they're working.
Do you run events outside of Sydney?
Not yet. Right now Infynite runs in the Sutherland Shire and South Sydney. Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, the Gold Coast, Hobart and Canberra are next. Join the waitlist on your city's page and we'll email you the moment it's live.
Come see for yourself.
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